I had my wedding cake topper made from Novelty Cake Toppers. I just received it today and it was gorgeous. They are made exactly to my specifications. Highly recommend to anyone. Their website is www.noveltycaketoppers.co.uk.
I don't think that printed napkins are 'old fashioned'...
I'm having some printed for my wedding next year. It's one of those finishing touches that makes the day special and can be a memento for your guests.
I got my cake toppers from a girl in Dublin - she made them exactly to look like my fiance and I- they were just brilliant and real talking poing on the day- she was really obliging and very reasonable in price compared to some other sites. you can contact her on www.penelopemelon.com good luck M x

Thanks for the tip, was looking for something unique for our cake and I think I'll order some. Was thinking of getting some napkins with our names and dates printed on it but my bridesmaid thinks its old fashioned...advice please!